Ok i met a girl last night on POF and we talked for like 5 min bc it was late, So i asked for her facebook but she said she deactivated it bc of drama and that she didnt get on pof that much so she gave me her phone number to text her. So how should i go about Texting her since i know hardly anything about her and on her profile all she has is quotes. I just dont want to bore her with interview-like questions.Any help would be appreciated.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Text opener to girl met online?
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Tread with caution. I've found that women who hand out their number so quickly turn out to be really full on and/or fake. Personally I like to screen the people I talk to for a while.
If she makes an excuse about Facebook take it as a minor red flag. A lot of these chicks are on FB, but their POF photos aren't current, while her FB ones are much less flattering, or she could be in a relationship.
Of course, she could be telling the truth, but in that case you have to wonder about the drama she mentioned.
Personally, I'd spend a bit more time chatting to her on POF before giving out your number. But if you want to take a chance I'd say a simple "Hi, it's your POF friend Adam here. What you upto? x"
A simple introduction will get the ball rolling. Then you can go from there to asking what she does for work, hobbies, what she looks for in a man, if she's dated online before and then escalate to some flirtation and asking her out.
If she makes an excuse about Facebook take it as a minor red flag. A lot of these chicks are on FB, but their POF photos aren't current, while her FB ones are much less flattering, or she could be in a relationship.
Of course, she could be telling the truth, but in that case you have to wonder about the drama she mentioned.
Personally, I'd spend a bit more time chatting to her on POF before giving out your number. But if you want to take a chance I'd say a simple "Hi, it's your POF friend Adam here. What you upto? x"
A simple introduction will get the ball rolling. Then you can go from there to asking what she does for work, hobbies, what she looks for in a man, if she's dated online before and then escalate to some flirtation and asking her out.
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