"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Venom01

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Hey, I texted this girl this morning.. we've been on a few dates and they've been great... haven't made a move yet.

She's a tutor and a biochem major. She has alot of kids of which she tutors for cash and she does it often during the week.

I texted her "What times do you have available to tutor me today?"

she replied

"LOL :) Tutoring late tonight but ill fit you in this week! and what is the subject??? <;)>"


ANY SUGGESTIONS WHAT I SHOULD WRITE BACK.

i want to keep it indirect but sexual
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Venom01

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shes a biochem major, she might actually think its human anatomy i need tutoring it... plus i think its kinda corny to say just anatomy...no?
 

DonJuan11

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Venom01 said:
Hey, I texted this girl this morning.. we've been on a few dates and they've been great... haven't made a move yet.

I texted her "What times do you have available to tutor me today?"

"LOL :) Tutoring late tonight but ill fit you in this week! and what is the subject??? <;)>"


ANY SUGGESTIONS WHAT I SHOULD WRITE BACK.
Why haven't you made a move yet after 2 dates? What are you waiting for? You may be in dangerous friend zone terrority.
 

SickAgain

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2 Points:
1) Biochem majors don't take human anatomy as a requirement.
2) I think she'll get the joke, even if it is corny.

Or you could flip the script on her and say you don't understand the phosphorylation mechanisms of DPG2,3 in the rate determining step of glycolysis and the subsequent fermentation of lactic acid from a pyruvate substrate.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DonJuan11 said:
Why haven't you made a move yet after 2 dates? What are you waiting for? You may be in dangerous friend zone terrority.
Exactly my thoughts as i was reading this, once you fall into this bottomless pit of the friend zone their is little you can do to claw your way out.
You have to understand the perception of the girl as to what is going on, you say that three dates have went amazing, to her it may seem like you are building a solid friendship despite and sexual connotations you may have( and when you are in the FZ those will just be regarded as jokes regardless of the situation).
 

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Trust me, im giving you little information, there is more too it. Im not in the friend zone..

any more suggestions?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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THE FEAR OF FALLING IN LOVE!

Pathetic. You lost her.
 

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Man..

She practically opened her legs up for you via text.

Instead of having a major rock hard on inserted inside of her, you hand her a Valentine's day card.

philomentology!?!

What?! WHAT?!?!?
 

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The worst part is- he came to this thread looking for a good response, got a great one and ignored it. Why even post this thread?

O. I know why... to show me and everyone else what fail looks like.

But hey, props to you for getting to a place where you had the opportunity for success.
 

Venom01

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phileomatology is the science of making out or some ****... it was well received, I played it with her personality. If she didnt know what it was she could have googled that ****.


I got "lol u r naughty :)"

i was gonna put anatomy but that was way to lame.

even if it does fail (which most likely it wont), it was definitely a learning experience anyway.

I'll keep you guys posted
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

Read more...

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