"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Text Messaging

cNfny

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should they be used for conversations or just short flirtatious phrases, when do you know to stop and if say she doesnt reply, should you text again or let it be until she either replies or initiates at a later time?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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IceCream

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This is why u dont text and you dont use instant messengers to talk to girls. Leaving all that stuff to the women, and talk to them face to face.

Do not repeat your mistakes by texting/msging the girl, u do not need to text to flirt, you do not need to text her period.
 
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text messages can be your best friend. they're quick, easy to use innuendo, and straight to the point. the best thing about them is you can never sound too enthusiatic (within reason).

just feel out each text conversation and if she keeps flirting with you, you're golden and should keep going.
 

IceCream

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Yes! listen to these guys! Text msg her with flirtatious messages and you'll bed her soon enough! Its magic!
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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tony-montana

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don't see the problem with text messages. my first proper girlfriend... that is how we met pretty much. used to talk to her on msn all morning everyday for hours. we fell in love. it was great while it lasted.
 

cNfny

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I'm asking what's the best way to handle a no response from a girl you text?
 
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