"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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cNfny

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should they be used for conversations or just short flirtatious phrases, when do you know to stop and if say she doesnt reply, should you text again or let it be until she either replies or initiates at a later time?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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IceCream

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This is why u dont text and you dont use instant messengers to talk to girls. Leaving all that stuff to the women, and talk to them face to face.

Do not repeat your mistakes by texting/msging the girl, u do not need to text to flirt, you do not need to text her period.
 
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text messages can be your best friend. they're quick, easy to use innuendo, and straight to the point. the best thing about them is you can never sound too enthusiatic (within reason).

just feel out each text conversation and if she keeps flirting with you, you're golden and should keep going.
 

IceCream

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Yes! listen to these guys! Text msg her with flirtatious messages and you'll bed her soon enough! Its magic!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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tony-montana

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don't see the problem with text messages. my first proper girlfriend... that is how we met pretty much. used to talk to her on msn all morning everyday for hours. we fell in love. it was great while it lasted.
 

cNfny

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I'm asking what's the best way to handle a no response from a girl you text?
 
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