"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Text Messaging

cNfny

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should they be used for conversations or just short flirtatious phrases, when do you know to stop and if say she doesnt reply, should you text again or let it be until she either replies or initiates at a later time?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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IceCream

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This is why u dont text and you dont use instant messengers to talk to girls. Leaving all that stuff to the women, and talk to them face to face.

Do not repeat your mistakes by texting/msging the girl, u do not need to text to flirt, you do not need to text her period.
 
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text messages can be your best friend. they're quick, easy to use innuendo, and straight to the point. the best thing about them is you can never sound too enthusiatic (within reason).

just feel out each text conversation and if she keeps flirting with you, you're golden and should keep going.
 

IceCream

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Yes! listen to these guys! Text msg her with flirtatious messages and you'll bed her soon enough! Its magic!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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tony-montana

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don't see the problem with text messages. my first proper girlfriend... that is how we met pretty much. used to talk to her on msn all morning everyday for hours. we fell in love. it was great while it lasted.
 

cNfny

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I'm asking what's the best way to handle a no response from a girl you text?
 
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