"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Text message game: **** test

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Hi guys!

Since 2,5 weeks am working on a 21y.o girl that I've opened on the subway. Due to my studies I couldn't find any time yet to meet her again, however we're texting ever since each day and I could say that it is definitely on (I got her telling me that fancies me, sending me pics of her etc.). Now today she dropped this bomb on me: basically telling me that she made out yesterday with some random chump. Upon reading this, I was really pissed, since I understand quite well, that this was a $hit test. My only answer so far was "ok". But I don't know how to proceed. Since an hour she keeps on texting me and asking why I wouldn't answer and if I'm allright and $hit.

What would you guys do?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Making out with a random chump is not a test. It is YOU who should have kissed her by now if the hint wasnt obvious.

Just say your phone was on charge and ask to go out this week. Text game is a losing game. Advance all forces.
 
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Two weeks and you haven't asked her out and you're mad that your imaginary "girlfriend" is kissing some other guy? Pathetic.
 
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Pretty easy, act like nothing happened! Passing the test, getting the girl! Just don't talk about it! :)
 
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Thanks guys, I see your point! Didn't ask her out so far, cuz I didn't have time to meet her. Anyhow I will make up leeway now
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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corner boy said:
Thanks guys, I see your point! Didn't ask her out so far, cuz I didn't have time to meet her. Anyhow I will make up leeway now
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what are you studying where you dont have time to bang a hot 21 year old?

you had better be studying to save the world or something...
 
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It's finals week. And failing my exams just because of a 21y.o? Nopes. By flunking I won't raise my social value.
 
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