"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Text message game: **** test

corner boy

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Hi guys!

Since 2,5 weeks am working on a 21y.o girl that I've opened on the subway. Due to my studies I couldn't find any time yet to meet her again, however we're texting ever since each day and I could say that it is definitely on (I got her telling me that fancies me, sending me pics of her etc.). Now today she dropped this bomb on me: basically telling me that she made out yesterday with some random chump. Upon reading this, I was really pissed, since I understand quite well, that this was a $hit test. My only answer so far was "ok". But I don't know how to proceed. Since an hour she keeps on texting me and asking why I wouldn't answer and if I'm allright and $hit.

What would you guys do?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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DragonBlood

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Making out with a random chump is not a test. It is YOU who should have kissed her by now if the hint wasnt obvious.

Just say your phone was on charge and ask to go out this week. Text game is a losing game. Advance all forces.
 
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Two weeks and you haven't asked her out and you're mad that your imaginary "girlfriend" is kissing some other guy? Pathetic.
 

DonJuanit0

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Pretty easy, act like nothing happened! Passing the test, getting the girl! Just don't talk about it! :)
 

corner boy

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Thanks guys, I see your point! Didn't ask her out so far, cuz I didn't have time to meet her. Anyhow I will make up leeway now
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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sylvester the cat

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corner boy said:
Thanks guys, I see your point! Didn't ask her out so far, cuz I didn't have time to meet her. Anyhow I will make up leeway now
what are you studying where you dont have time to bang a hot 21 year old?

you had better be studying to save the world or something...
 

corner boy

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It's finals week. And failing my exams just because of a 21y.o? Nopes. By flunking I won't raise my social value.
 
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