"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Text message game: **** test

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Hi guys!

Since 2,5 weeks am working on a 21y.o girl that I've opened on the subway. Due to my studies I couldn't find any time yet to meet her again, however we're texting ever since each day and I could say that it is definitely on (I got her telling me that fancies me, sending me pics of her etc.). Now today she dropped this bomb on me: basically telling me that she made out yesterday with some random chump. Upon reading this, I was really pissed, since I understand quite well, that this was a $hit test. My only answer so far was "ok". But I don't know how to proceed. Since an hour she keeps on texting me and asking why I wouldn't answer and if I'm allright and $hit.

What would you guys do?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Making out with a random chump is not a test. It is YOU who should have kissed her by now if the hint wasnt obvious.

Just say your phone was on charge and ask to go out this week. Text game is a losing game. Advance all forces.
 
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Two weeks and you haven't asked her out and you're mad that your imaginary "girlfriend" is kissing some other guy? Pathetic.
 
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Pretty easy, act like nothing happened! Passing the test, getting the girl! Just don't talk about it! :)
 
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Thanks guys, I see your point! Didn't ask her out so far, cuz I didn't have time to meet her. Anyhow I will make up leeway now
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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corner boy said:
Thanks guys, I see your point! Didn't ask her out so far, cuz I didn't have time to meet her. Anyhow I will make up leeway now
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what are you studying where you dont have time to bang a hot 21 year old?

you had better be studying to save the world or something...
 
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It's finals week. And failing my exams just because of a 21y.o? Nopes. By flunking I won't raise my social value.
 
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