My friends challenged to me a bet.They gave me a bunched of numbers of their female friends and asked me to gamed them.But the problem is i cannot introduce myself as a friend of theirs.Im now literally busting my head just thinking of the opener.Any help is deeply appreciated!
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Text game help.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sounds like a lazy way to 'game' women.
But hey man, don't let it bother you. If you're going to do something like that, as an experiment, do it to have fun and learn from it--in this case, that it's juvenile--but to each his own.
"Hi, I'm prince charming. I'm boys with 'so-and-so.' He gave me your number, and I'm texting you to flirt with you.
" She'll have fun playing with something like that, and she'll know you aren't a complete nut jub from social proof.
But hey man, don't let it bother you. If you're going to do something like that, as an experiment, do it to have fun and learn from it--in this case, that it's juvenile--but to each his own.
"Hi, I'm prince charming. I'm boys with 'so-and-so.' He gave me your number, and I'm texting you to flirt with you.
" She'll have fun playing with something like that, and she'll know you aren't a complete nut jub from social proof.SandHawk
Master Don Juan
It's near impossible to just phone up a stranger, introduce yourself and then set up a date. Mainly because you're going to sound like a creepy fvck by calling random girls and asking them to date you. They don't know who you are, how you look, and how you act. You have no rapport with them, so you cannot fall back on their memories of you and how you made them feel.
I'd change the bet a bit and say that you're allowed to introduce yourself as a friend and that's all you can use. Even I would blow off a random chick that called me and wanted to date me.
And the only thing I can imagine is calling them up, asking for a different name(preferably a girl) then theirs, who you're obviously not going to get on the line, and then before hanging up, you tell her she has a lovely voice and ask her where she's from. Coincidental you're from the same town as her, and you could be like "Alright, this is going to sound a bit weird, but I'm *really* curious about the person behind the voice. I happen to be at the mall <date/time>, so how about we go for a cup of coffee/tea then at <place>. Just to satisfy my curiosity, and we don't like one another, we just forget this phone call and each other's number altogether. "
That's all I can make of it...
I'd change the bet a bit and say that you're allowed to introduce yourself as a friend and that's all you can use. Even I would blow off a random chick that called me and wanted to date me.
And the only thing I can imagine is calling them up, asking for a different name(preferably a girl) then theirs, who you're obviously not going to get on the line, and then before hanging up, you tell her she has a lovely voice and ask her where she's from. Coincidental you're from the same town as her, and you could be like "Alright, this is going to sound a bit weird, but I'm *really* curious about the person behind the voice. I happen to be at the mall <date/time>, so how about we go for a cup of coffee/tea then at <place>. Just to satisfy my curiosity, and we don't like one another, we just forget this phone call and each other's number altogether. "
That's all I can make of it...
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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This is only a joke, isn´t it?