My friends challenged to me a bet.They gave me a bunched of numbers of their female friends and asked me to gamed them.But the problem is i cannot introduce myself as a friend of theirs.Im now literally busting my head just thinking of the opener.Any help is deeply appreciated!
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Text game help.
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Sounds like a lazy way to 'game' women.
But hey man, don't let it bother you. If you're going to do something like that, as an experiment, do it to have fun and learn from it--in this case, that it's juvenile--but to each his own.
"Hi, I'm prince charming. I'm boys with 'so-and-so.' He gave me your number, and I'm texting you to flirt with you.
" She'll have fun playing with something like that, and she'll know you aren't a complete nut jub from social proof.
But hey man, don't let it bother you. If you're going to do something like that, as an experiment, do it to have fun and learn from it--in this case, that it's juvenile--but to each his own.
"Hi, I'm prince charming. I'm boys with 'so-and-so.' He gave me your number, and I'm texting you to flirt with you.
" She'll have fun playing with something like that, and she'll know you aren't a complete nut jub from social proof.SandHawk
Master Don Juan
It's near impossible to just phone up a stranger, introduce yourself and then set up a date. Mainly because you're going to sound like a creepy fvck by calling random girls and asking them to date you. They don't know who you are, how you look, and how you act. You have no rapport with them, so you cannot fall back on their memories of you and how you made them feel.
I'd change the bet a bit and say that you're allowed to introduce yourself as a friend and that's all you can use. Even I would blow off a random chick that called me and wanted to date me.
And the only thing I can imagine is calling them up, asking for a different name(preferably a girl) then theirs, who you're obviously not going to get on the line, and then before hanging up, you tell her she has a lovely voice and ask her where she's from. Coincidental you're from the same town as her, and you could be like "Alright, this is going to sound a bit weird, but I'm *really* curious about the person behind the voice. I happen to be at the mall <date/time>, so how about we go for a cup of coffee/tea then at <place>. Just to satisfy my curiosity, and we don't like one another, we just forget this phone call and each other's number altogether. "
That's all I can make of it...
I'd change the bet a bit and say that you're allowed to introduce yourself as a friend and that's all you can use. Even I would blow off a random chick that called me and wanted to date me.
And the only thing I can imagine is calling them up, asking for a different name(preferably a girl) then theirs, who you're obviously not going to get on the line, and then before hanging up, you tell her she has a lovely voice and ask her where she's from. Coincidental you're from the same town as her, and you could be like "Alright, this is going to sound a bit weird, but I'm *really* curious about the person behind the voice. I happen to be at the mall <date/time>, so how about we go for a cup of coffee/tea then at <place>. Just to satisfy my curiosity, and we don't like one another, we just forget this phone call and each other's number altogether. "
That's all I can make of it...
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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This is only a joke, isn´t it?