My friends challenged to me a bet.They gave me a bunched of numbers of their female friends and asked me to gamed them.But the problem is i cannot introduce myself as a friend of theirs.Im now literally busting my head just thinking of the opener.Any help is deeply appreciated!
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Text game help.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Sounds like a lazy way to 'game' women.
But hey man, don't let it bother you. If you're going to do something like that, as an experiment, do it to have fun and learn from it--in this case, that it's juvenile--but to each his own.
"Hi, I'm prince charming. I'm boys with 'so-and-so.' He gave me your number, and I'm texting you to flirt with you.
" She'll have fun playing with something like that, and she'll know you aren't a complete nut jub from social proof.
But hey man, don't let it bother you. If you're going to do something like that, as an experiment, do it to have fun and learn from it--in this case, that it's juvenile--but to each his own.
"Hi, I'm prince charming. I'm boys with 'so-and-so.' He gave me your number, and I'm texting you to flirt with you.
" She'll have fun playing with something like that, and she'll know you aren't a complete nut jub from social proof.SandHawk
Master Don Juan
It's near impossible to just phone up a stranger, introduce yourself and then set up a date. Mainly because you're going to sound like a creepy fvck by calling random girls and asking them to date you. They don't know who you are, how you look, and how you act. You have no rapport with them, so you cannot fall back on their memories of you and how you made them feel.
I'd change the bet a bit and say that you're allowed to introduce yourself as a friend and that's all you can use. Even I would blow off a random chick that called me and wanted to date me.
And the only thing I can imagine is calling them up, asking for a different name(preferably a girl) then theirs, who you're obviously not going to get on the line, and then before hanging up, you tell her she has a lovely voice and ask her where she's from. Coincidental you're from the same town as her, and you could be like "Alright, this is going to sound a bit weird, but I'm *really* curious about the person behind the voice. I happen to be at the mall <date/time>, so how about we go for a cup of coffee/tea then at <place>. Just to satisfy my curiosity, and we don't like one another, we just forget this phone call and each other's number altogether. "
That's all I can make of it...
I'd change the bet a bit and say that you're allowed to introduce yourself as a friend and that's all you can use. Even I would blow off a random chick that called me and wanted to date me.
And the only thing I can imagine is calling them up, asking for a different name(preferably a girl) then theirs, who you're obviously not going to get on the line, and then before hanging up, you tell her she has a lovely voice and ask her where she's from. Coincidental you're from the same town as her, and you could be like "Alright, this is going to sound a bit weird, but I'm *really* curious about the person behind the voice. I happen to be at the mall <date/time>, so how about we go for a cup of coffee/tea then at <place>. Just to satisfy my curiosity, and we don't like one another, we just forget this phone call and each other's number altogether. "
That's all I can make of it...
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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This is only a joke, isn´t it?