My friends challenged to me a bet.They gave me a bunched of numbers of their female friends and asked me to gamed them.But the problem is i cannot introduce myself as a friend of theirs.Im now literally busting my head just thinking of the opener.Any help is deeply appreciated!
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Text game help.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Sounds like a lazy way to 'game' women.
But hey man, don't let it bother you. If you're going to do something like that, as an experiment, do it to have fun and learn from it--in this case, that it's juvenile--but to each his own.
"Hi, I'm prince charming. I'm boys with 'so-and-so.' He gave me your number, and I'm texting you to flirt with you.
" She'll have fun playing with something like that, and she'll know you aren't a complete nut jub from social proof.
But hey man, don't let it bother you. If you're going to do something like that, as an experiment, do it to have fun and learn from it--in this case, that it's juvenile--but to each his own.
"Hi, I'm prince charming. I'm boys with 'so-and-so.' He gave me your number, and I'm texting you to flirt with you.
" She'll have fun playing with something like that, and she'll know you aren't a complete nut jub from social proof.SandHawk
Master Don Juan
It's near impossible to just phone up a stranger, introduce yourself and then set up a date. Mainly because you're going to sound like a creepy fvck by calling random girls and asking them to date you. They don't know who you are, how you look, and how you act. You have no rapport with them, so you cannot fall back on their memories of you and how you made them feel.
I'd change the bet a bit and say that you're allowed to introduce yourself as a friend and that's all you can use. Even I would blow off a random chick that called me and wanted to date me.
And the only thing I can imagine is calling them up, asking for a different name(preferably a girl) then theirs, who you're obviously not going to get on the line, and then before hanging up, you tell her she has a lovely voice and ask her where she's from. Coincidental you're from the same town as her, and you could be like "Alright, this is going to sound a bit weird, but I'm *really* curious about the person behind the voice. I happen to be at the mall <date/time>, so how about we go for a cup of coffee/tea then at <place>. Just to satisfy my curiosity, and we don't like one another, we just forget this phone call and each other's number altogether. "
That's all I can make of it...
I'd change the bet a bit and say that you're allowed to introduce yourself as a friend and that's all you can use. Even I would blow off a random chick that called me and wanted to date me.
And the only thing I can imagine is calling them up, asking for a different name(preferably a girl) then theirs, who you're obviously not going to get on the line, and then before hanging up, you tell her she has a lovely voice and ask her where she's from. Coincidental you're from the same town as her, and you could be like "Alright, this is going to sound a bit weird, but I'm *really* curious about the person behind the voice. I happen to be at the mall <date/time>, so how about we go for a cup of coffee/tea then at <place>. Just to satisfy my curiosity, and we don't like one another, we just forget this phone call and each other's number altogether. "
That's all I can make of it...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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This is only a joke, isn´t it?