"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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damnbugs

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Alright so some friends and I are at this hotel and down at the bar getting pretty drunk. So I scope out the talent- not a lot. But you have to work with whats at hand.

So after a while I spot HB6-7 and figure 'why not'. So I look at her from across the bar until I make eye contact. She makes eye contact- I smile- she looks down. I move out of her sight right away- but to where I can still see her- she looks back and then scans around for me. I wait a minute or two and then walk straight up to her with a big smile.

Things go quickly at this point.

I introduce myself (first name only) and when she tells me hers I jokingly say "yeah names aren't important anyways" and before she even gets a chance to respond I ask her "how you feeling- what are you drinking?"

She just laughs

Some more small talk and I kept moving closer using the excuse that I was having trouble hearing her. By this time I am right in her space and looking her in the eyes and talking softly into her ear.

I had only been talking to her for 3 minutes tops and I gave her a nice soft kiss. Then I just smiled at her. She was shocked and said "I can't believe we just kissed!" I responded by saying "what do you mean- like this" and kiss her again but for a bit longer and then pull away laughing. She pulls me back and we kiss again.

At this point I look across the bar to see my friends all looking across the bar at us. Not being one for an audience I order us both a couple more drinks each.

As soon as the drinks get there I say to her " lets go for a walk" and turn and walk away- she didn't even hesitate.

Back to the room and the rest you can figure out.

Very sleepless night!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Got damn bro that's some sh1t!

I liked how you:
1. Let her know you were interested and then waited for her sign of interest (looking for you).
2. Dominated the conversation and situation.

I run similar game when I'm drinking.

Was the chick by herself?
 

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I ****ing bow down to game like that.

Impressive.
 

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Nice pickup. Just to clarify though, for any of the beginners here, do not, I repeat DO NOT kiss a girl like that if you're not in a drinking atmosphere! Even then, that move could land you with a slap, or worse yet, she may have a boyfriend standing nearby that she just hasn't mentioned yet.
 

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Wow, wish I could do that.. still a bit chicken now and then.. but hey, aint we all sometimes....

I`m curious, how did you manage to kis her within 3 minutes.
did you kiss her out of the blue? or what???
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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haha, I know....

after heard / seen it I can creatively make something new of it and go on about it so that`s not the problem.

My prob is: I can smooth talk and stuff, only after I`ve seen or heard that stuff. It`s really hard for me to come up with this stuff.
Reading this forum and Dyd mailbag has helped me alot thoug
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"I`m curious, how did you manage to kis her within 3 minutes.
did you kiss her out of the blue? or what???"


Made her think that I was having trouble hearing her- got right into her space and kept making eye contact and talking to her softly right in her ear. Then waited till our eyes caught without any conversation- waited till her eyes dropped to my lips and I calmly kissed her.

Also I calmly placed my hand on her hip area to pull her close everytime I talked into her ear. When we kissed I already had my hand on her hip and gently pulled her towards me.


Sorry- but it is as easy as it sounds- as long as you don't care about getting slapped- it don't hurt much anyways!
 
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