"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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damnbugs

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Alright so some friends and I are at this hotel and down at the bar getting pretty drunk. So I scope out the talent- not a lot. But you have to work with whats at hand.

So after a while I spot HB6-7 and figure 'why not'. So I look at her from across the bar until I make eye contact. She makes eye contact- I smile- she looks down. I move out of her sight right away- but to where I can still see her- she looks back and then scans around for me. I wait a minute or two and then walk straight up to her with a big smile.

Things go quickly at this point.

I introduce myself (first name only) and when she tells me hers I jokingly say "yeah names aren't important anyways" and before she even gets a chance to respond I ask her "how you feeling- what are you drinking?"

She just laughs

Some more small talk and I kept moving closer using the excuse that I was having trouble hearing her. By this time I am right in her space and looking her in the eyes and talking softly into her ear.

I had only been talking to her for 3 minutes tops and I gave her a nice soft kiss. Then I just smiled at her. She was shocked and said "I can't believe we just kissed!" I responded by saying "what do you mean- like this" and kiss her again but for a bit longer and then pull away laughing. She pulls me back and we kiss again.

At this point I look across the bar to see my friends all looking across the bar at us. Not being one for an audience I order us both a couple more drinks each.

As soon as the drinks get there I say to her " lets go for a walk" and turn and walk away- she didn't even hesitate.

Back to the room and the rest you can figure out.

Very sleepless night!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Got damn bro that's some sh1t!

I liked how you:
1. Let her know you were interested and then waited for her sign of interest (looking for you).
2. Dominated the conversation and situation.

I run similar game when I'm drinking.

Was the chick by herself?
 

JH6

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I ****ing bow down to game like that.

Impressive.
 

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Nice pickup. Just to clarify though, for any of the beginners here, do not, I repeat DO NOT kiss a girl like that if you're not in a drinking atmosphere! Even then, that move could land you with a slap, or worse yet, she may have a boyfriend standing nearby that she just hasn't mentioned yet.
 

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Wow, wish I could do that.. still a bit chicken now and then.. but hey, aint we all sometimes....

I`m curious, how did you manage to kis her within 3 minutes.
did you kiss her out of the blue? or what???
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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haha, I know....

after heard / seen it I can creatively make something new of it and go on about it so that`s not the problem.

My prob is: I can smooth talk and stuff, only after I`ve seen or heard that stuff. It`s really hard for me to come up with this stuff.
Reading this forum and Dyd mailbag has helped me alot thoug
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"I`m curious, how did you manage to kis her within 3 minutes.
did you kiss her out of the blue? or what???"


Made her think that I was having trouble hearing her- got right into her space and kept making eye contact and talking to her softly right in her ear. Then waited till our eyes caught without any conversation- waited till her eyes dropped to my lips and I calmly kissed her.

Also I calmly placed my hand on her hip area to pull her close everytime I talked into her ear. When we kissed I already had my hand on her hip and gently pulled her towards me.


Sorry- but it is as easy as it sounds- as long as you don't care about getting slapped- it don't hurt much anyways!
 
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