HappyHobo
Banned
DJ's from Texas please report here.
Thank You.
Thank You.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Texas the #1 DJ state in the U.S.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
HappyHobo
Banned
Yo
Dallas is huge where in dallas?
Dallas is huge where in dallas?
seulaxplaya
Don Juan
san antonio and austin
st eds college in austin and im from san antonio but living in austin.
st eds college in austin and im from san antonio but living in austin.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
HappyHobo
Banned
fun
ever been clubbing down on 6th st.
in downtown austin?
ever been clubbing down on 6th st.
in downtown austin?
seulaxplaya
Don Juan
happy hobo
been a couple of times. but like i cant drink legally at clubs i just do the college party thing for now.
been a couple of times. but like i cant drink legally at clubs i just do the college party thing for now.
Nates
Don Juan
san anto vato reporting for duty sir
hell yeah, hey any yall from san anto holla at me we can chill go out and holla at some chicks make bets on how many numbers we can get and stuff i think it will boost some of us shy don juans into some kind of talk with chicks holla if you in san anto or even from here. ..
right on suelaxplaya . .. .
hell yeah, hey any yall from san anto holla at me we can chill go out and holla at some chicks make bets on how many numbers we can get and stuff i think it will boost some of us shy don juans into some kind of talk with chicks holla if you in san anto or even from here. ..
right on suelaxplaya . .. .
much2learn
Don Juan
College Station, Texas A&M
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Mercury21
Don Juan
I'm from Dallas: Plano area but I am all over, usually in Downtown or North Dallas/Uptown area.
Anybody want to meet up give me a shout. Just a note, I am over 21 and the places I go are all over 21 places...
Anybody want to meet up give me a shout. Just a note, I am over 21 and the places I go are all over 21 places...
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
project2501
Don Juan
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Denton, TX here