HappyHobo
Banned
DJ's from Texas please report here.
Thank You.
Thank You.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Texas the #1 DJ state in the U.S.
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
HappyHobo
Banned
Yo
Dallas is huge where in dallas?
Dallas is huge where in dallas?
seulaxplaya
Don Juan
san antonio and austin
st eds college in austin and im from san antonio but living in austin.
st eds college in austin and im from san antonio but living in austin.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
HappyHobo
Banned
fun
ever been clubbing down on 6th st.
in downtown austin?
ever been clubbing down on 6th st.
in downtown austin?
seulaxplaya
Don Juan
happy hobo
been a couple of times. but like i cant drink legally at clubs i just do the college party thing for now.
been a couple of times. but like i cant drink legally at clubs i just do the college party thing for now.
Nates
Don Juan
san anto vato reporting for duty sir
hell yeah, hey any yall from san anto holla at me we can chill go out and holla at some chicks make bets on how many numbers we can get and stuff i think it will boost some of us shy don juans into some kind of talk with chicks holla if you in san anto or even from here. ..
right on suelaxplaya . .. .
hell yeah, hey any yall from san anto holla at me we can chill go out and holla at some chicks make bets on how many numbers we can get and stuff i think it will boost some of us shy don juans into some kind of talk with chicks holla if you in san anto or even from here. ..
right on suelaxplaya . .. .
much2learn
Don Juan
College Station, Texas A&M
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Mercury21
Don Juan
I'm from Dallas: Plano area but I am all over, usually in Downtown or North Dallas/Uptown area.
Anybody want to meet up give me a shout. Just a note, I am over 21 and the places I go are all over 21 places...
Anybody want to meet up give me a shout. Just a note, I am over 21 and the places I go are all over 21 places...
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
project2501
Don Juan
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Denton, TX here