HappyHobo
Banned
DJ's from Texas please report here.
Thank You.
Thank You.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Texas the #1 DJ state in the U.S.
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
HappyHobo
Banned
Yo
Dallas is huge where in dallas?
Dallas is huge where in dallas?
seulaxplaya
Don Juan
san antonio and austin
st eds college in austin and im from san antonio but living in austin.
st eds college in austin and im from san antonio but living in austin.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
HappyHobo
Banned
fun
ever been clubbing down on 6th st.
in downtown austin?
ever been clubbing down on 6th st.
in downtown austin?
seulaxplaya
Don Juan
happy hobo
been a couple of times. but like i cant drink legally at clubs i just do the college party thing for now.
been a couple of times. but like i cant drink legally at clubs i just do the college party thing for now.
Nates
Don Juan
san anto vato reporting for duty sir
hell yeah, hey any yall from san anto holla at me we can chill go out and holla at some chicks make bets on how many numbers we can get and stuff i think it will boost some of us shy don juans into some kind of talk with chicks holla if you in san anto or even from here. ..
right on suelaxplaya . .. .
hell yeah, hey any yall from san anto holla at me we can chill go out and holla at some chicks make bets on how many numbers we can get and stuff i think it will boost some of us shy don juans into some kind of talk with chicks holla if you in san anto or even from here. ..
right on suelaxplaya . .. .
much2learn
Don Juan
College Station, Texas A&M
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Mercury21
Don Juan
I'm from Dallas: Plano area but I am all over, usually in Downtown or North Dallas/Uptown area.
Anybody want to meet up give me a shout. Just a note, I am over 21 and the places I go are all over 21 places...
Anybody want to meet up give me a shout. Just a note, I am over 21 and the places I go are all over 21 places...
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
project2501
Don Juan
- Joined
- Apr 9, 2003
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- 47
Denton, TX here