**** Tests

[cyjay201]

We all know girls do em, such as cancelling a date at the last second, or getting mad at your for no freaking reason. I've had a number of girls cancel dates on me, I usually just act laid back, and pretend that I don't give a ****, but at the same time I use sarcasm to show I won't put up with their B.S. Then I cut the conversation short over the phone with the line "I'm actually in the middle of something, so I've gotta go."

This has worked pretty well for me, I usually get another call from them first in the next couple of days, and usually meet up at least once and go from there.

Fellow DJ's, please post your method when a girl **** tests you.

cyjay

 

[Wiesman44]

Hold up there buddy. If a girl cancels a date on you at the last second, chances are she's not interested in you and was too shy to tell you earlier so she resorts to last minute bailing.

Anyway, I dont consider that a sh#t test. Thats more like a 'dont call me again' test. Give a good example of a sh#t test and i'll give you my typical response.

 

[cyjay201]

Originally posted by Wiesman44
Hold up there buddy. If a girl cancels a date on you at the last second, chances are she's not interested in you and was too shy to tell you earlier so she resorts to last minute bailing.

Anyway, I dont consider that a sh#t test. Thats more like a 'dont call me again' test. Give a good example of a sh#t test and i'll give you my typical response.

Well I always considered this a **** test.....b/c with this girl I gave her the idea I was a little pissed, but didnt give a ****, and she actually called me back a couple days later.

I thought this was considered a **** test just b/c some HB's want to see how you react when they flake you? Am I wrong here?

 

[Tha Realnezz]

I expect them to all do things like that so I never really get heated over it.

As long you realize they all do this,I guess you're ok.Honestly I just roll with the punches.

 

[Wiesman44]

I'm not saying she's definitely not interested, but its a damn good indicator if she's not. I'd call again just to be sure. But, a girl is not going to cancel a date on you JUST to see how you react. Girls don't think that way. Now maybe she had a decent reason for canceling. Now she's not going to pay attention too much to how you react to it, but she will notice if you act AFC.

IMO, don't act like you don't give a **** that she cancelled, but don't be completely heart-broken over it either. Find a happy medium and you're golden.

 

[xiola]

there could be several reasons for this
1. she doesnt want to go out with you and waited till the last minute
2. shes testing you
3. she has a valid reason for cancelling

just go with it. i usually dont call them back after that. if they want to talk to me, then they can call me


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