"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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inzone50

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Such as showing her other women are interested in you?! To build interest?

...or something to see if she will cheat on you?
 
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There is a ton of information on this forum that talk about how women show interest, kino, eye contact, dilated pupils, if they actually ask questions (haha) , etc.
I'm positive that you can find some amazing posts on this stuff if you search around a little harder.

A true player never has to tell a women that other women are interested in him. Actions speak louder than words my friend. If your hanging with this chick and you have 2-3 other girls calling your phone that night, she'll get the message.

Don't waste your time worrying if a girl would cheat on you or not, worrying is such a wasted/useless emotion. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong. If something does come up though don't sweat it, thats why you know and have other girls' numbers right?

Besides, remember you're the prize why would a girl cheat on the best guy she will ever meet?:)

Be creative man, make up your own tests. You can actually have a lot of fun with this. Lately, i have been trying to see how much a can get a girl to do for me. No, i don't take advantage of the person, i just have fun with it and eventually turn it into a C/F joke of some sort.
 
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chaddycakes21 said:
There is a ton of information on this forum that talk about how women show interest, kino, eye contact, dilated pupils, if they actually ask questions (haha) , etc.
I'm positive that you can find some amazing posts on this stuff if you search around a little harder.

A true player never has to tell a women that other women are interested in him. Actions speak louder than words my friend. If your hanging with this chick and you have 2-3 other girls calling your phone that night, she'll get the message.

Don't waste your time worrying if a girl would cheat on you or not, worrying is such a wasted/useless emotion. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong. If something does come up though don't sweat it, thats why you know and have other girls' numbers right?

Besides, remember you're the prize why would a girl cheat on the best guy she will ever meet?:)

Be creative man, make up your own tests. You can actually have a lot of fun with this. Lately, i have been trying to see how much a can get a girl to do for me. No, i don't take advantage of the person, i just have fun with it and eventually turn it into a C/F joke of some sort.
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What about having a female friends call me when i'm with her and she sees it?

By the way its my g/f and we are a couple and more than dating. Its exclusive.
 
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come on man if this doesn't scream insecurity then what does. Women test men not the other way around stop thinking like a b1tch and just be a man. Most men who "get it" don't have to test women because they are able to pick it up by observation. But to have some of your female friends call you up intentionally to see how she will react sounds like a b1tch in in a mans body. If your trying to get a rise out of her do it some other way that doesn't revolve you scheming like some attention wh0re. WOW just wow O_O
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The only test I know of at the moment, is the number testing to see if she's giving you a legit number.

She gives you a number. You read it back to her wrong. If she doesn't correct it she is giving you a fake number and you can focus on other women.
 
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