"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tests on women

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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inzone50

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Such as showing her other women are interested in you?! To build interest?

...or something to see if she will cheat on you?
 

chaddycakes21

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There is a ton of information on this forum that talk about how women show interest, kino, eye contact, dilated pupils, if they actually ask questions (haha) , etc.
I'm positive that you can find some amazing posts on this stuff if you search around a little harder.

A true player never has to tell a women that other women are interested in him. Actions speak louder than words my friend. If your hanging with this chick and you have 2-3 other girls calling your phone that night, she'll get the message.

Don't waste your time worrying if a girl would cheat on you or not, worrying is such a wasted/useless emotion. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong. If something does come up though don't sweat it, thats why you know and have other girls' numbers right?

Besides, remember you're the prize why would a girl cheat on the best guy she will ever meet?:)

Be creative man, make up your own tests. You can actually have a lot of fun with this. Lately, i have been trying to see how much a can get a girl to do for me. No, i don't take advantage of the person, i just have fun with it and eventually turn it into a C/F joke of some sort.
 

inzone50

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chaddycakes21 said:
There is a ton of information on this forum that talk about how women show interest, kino, eye contact, dilated pupils, if they actually ask questions (haha) , etc.
I'm positive that you can find some amazing posts on this stuff if you search around a little harder.

A true player never has to tell a women that other women are interested in him. Actions speak louder than words my friend. If your hanging with this chick and you have 2-3 other girls calling your phone that night, she'll get the message.

Don't waste your time worrying if a girl would cheat on you or not, worrying is such a wasted/useless emotion. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong. If something does come up though don't sweat it, thats why you know and have other girls' numbers right?

Besides, remember you're the prize why would a girl cheat on the best guy she will ever meet?:)

Be creative man, make up your own tests. You can actually have a lot of fun with this. Lately, i have been trying to see how much a can get a girl to do for me. No, i don't take advantage of the person, i just have fun with it and eventually turn it into a C/F joke of some sort.
What about having a female friends call me when i'm with her and she sees it?

By the way its my g/f and we are a couple and more than dating. Its exclusive.
 

Alphamale1821

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come on man if this doesn't scream insecurity then what does. Women test men not the other way around stop thinking like a b1tch and just be a man. Most men who "get it" don't have to test women because they are able to pick it up by observation. But to have some of your female friends call you up intentionally to see how she will react sounds like a b1tch in in a mans body. If your trying to get a rise out of her do it some other way that doesn't revolve you scheming like some attention wh0re. WOW just wow O_O
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Themanthatcan

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The only test I know of at the moment, is the number testing to see if she's giving you a legit number.

She gives you a number. You read it back to her wrong. If she doesn't correct it she is giving you a fake number and you can focus on other women.
 
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