Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What about having a female friends call me when i'm with her and she sees it?chaddycakes21 said:There is a ton of information on this forum that talk about how women show interest, kino, eye contact, dilated pupils, if they actually ask questions (haha) , etc.
I'm positive that you can find some amazing posts on this stuff if you search around a little harder.
A true player never has to tell a women that other women are interested in him. Actions speak louder than words my friend. If your hanging with this chick and you have 2-3 other girls calling your phone that night, she'll get the message.
Don't waste your time worrying if a girl would cheat on you or not, worrying is such a wasted/useless emotion. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong. If something does come up though don't sweat it, thats why you know and have other girls' numbers right?
Besides, remember you're the prize why would a girl cheat on the best guy she will ever meet?
Be creative man, make up your own tests. You can actually have a lot of fun with this. Lately, i have been trying to see how much a can get a girl to do for me. No, i don't take advantage of the person, i just have fun with it and eventually turn it into a C/F joke of some sort.
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.