That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
What about having a female friends call me when i'm with her and she sees it?chaddycakes21 said:There is a ton of information on this forum that talk about how women show interest, kino, eye contact, dilated pupils, if they actually ask questions (haha) , etc.
I'm positive that you can find some amazing posts on this stuff if you search around a little harder.
A true player never has to tell a women that other women are interested in him. Actions speak louder than words my friend. If your hanging with this chick and you have 2-3 other girls calling your phone that night, she'll get the message.
Don't waste your time worrying if a girl would cheat on you or not, worrying is such a wasted/useless emotion. I like to give everyone the benefit of the doubt until they prove me wrong. If something does come up though don't sweat it, thats why you know and have other girls' numbers right?
Besides, remember you're the prize why would a girl cheat on the best guy she will ever meet?
Be creative man, make up your own tests. You can actually have a lot of fun with this. Lately, i have been trying to see how much a can get a girl to do for me. No, i don't take advantage of the person, i just have fun with it and eventually turn it into a C/F joke of some sort.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.