Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Cut is out, flab is fab. Get with the program.Babnik said:No, get CUT instead of HUGE!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Cut is out, flab is fab. Get with the program.Babnik said:No, get CUT instead of HUGE!
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Cut basically means very little to no fat, regardless of muscle mass. "Ripped" is what I consider someone with bulk who's also cut.Espi said:It's not possible to "get cut." Muscle doesn't form out of thin air. You have to develop (bulk) the muscle first. Cuts come from diet.
So many generalizations here I don't even know where to begin.Babnik said:Cut means lose body fat to a point of a 6 pack. Everyone has a 6 pack regardless of how little muscle you have. You can be cut and have little muscle and you will have a lot of definition. Don't teach a bodybuilder how to bodybuild!
When you bulk, unless you have really good genetics you are going to GAIN FAT because you are required to eat more than usual and its damn hard (even with a perfect) diet to make sure ALL excess calories will go into muscle and not fat.
This is however for those who are already working out.
When you JUST start working out - you will lose body fat and gain muscle. After a few months that will STOP and you have to either bulk - gain mostly muscle and some fat or cut - lose mostly fat and some muscle.
Women prefer definition to being bulky.
md3sign said:So many generalizations here I don't even know where to begin.
1) Although the tissue connections are there for a 6 pack, unless you train your abs in some way it can still look flat even at a disgustingly low bf percentage. You still have to work your abs like any other muscle group in your body - with progressive resistance. Why do you think some girls have muscle definition and others don't, even though both can be extremely skinny?
2) "When you first start working out you will lose bodyfat and gain muscle" what a load of crap. Changes in muscle mass and bodyfat percentage have absolutely nothing to do with how long you've been training. Yes you can gain a lot of muscle when you first begin training and these are known as "noob gains", but you won't magically put on muscle and lose fat at the same time for a few months, then completely change gears.
3) "Women prefer definition to being bulky". This is a loaded statement. That's like comparing a 5'10" 150lb kid with a 6 pack to a 5'10" 200lb bodybuilder pre-cut cycle. Which do you think she'll prefer, the scrawny lad or the muscle man? Besides, women have much more prerequisites than men in the first place (our only real prerequisite is physical attraction).
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
I took you seriously up until this line. Why do you think medditaranean people live longer and are healthier on average than Americans or Brits?Espi said:Misconception...
It's called evolution, and there's nothing you can do to change it. Plastic surgery and responsible steroid use are the keys to a longer and healthier life.
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