Scrumtulescence
Master Don Juan
Cut is out, flab is fab. Get with the program.Babnik said:No, get CUT instead of HUGE!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Cut is out, flab is fab. Get with the program.Babnik said:No, get CUT instead of HUGE!
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Cut basically means very little to no fat, regardless of muscle mass. "Ripped" is what I consider someone with bulk who's also cut.Espi said:It's not possible to "get cut." Muscle doesn't form out of thin air. You have to develop (bulk) the muscle first. Cuts come from diet.
So many generalizations here I don't even know where to begin.Babnik said:Cut means lose body fat to a point of a 6 pack. Everyone has a 6 pack regardless of how little muscle you have. You can be cut and have little muscle and you will have a lot of definition. Don't teach a bodybuilder how to bodybuild!
When you bulk, unless you have really good genetics you are going to GAIN FAT because you are required to eat more than usual and its damn hard (even with a perfect) diet to make sure ALL excess calories will go into muscle and not fat.
This is however for those who are already working out.
When you JUST start working out - you will lose body fat and gain muscle. After a few months that will STOP and you have to either bulk - gain mostly muscle and some fat or cut - lose mostly fat and some muscle.
Women prefer definition to being bulky.
md3sign said:So many generalizations here I don't even know where to begin.
1) Although the tissue connections are there for a 6 pack, unless you train your abs in some way it can still look flat even at a disgustingly low bf percentage. You still have to work your abs like any other muscle group in your body - with progressive resistance. Why do you think some girls have muscle definition and others don't, even though both can be extremely skinny?
2) "When you first start working out you will lose bodyfat and gain muscle" what a load of crap. Changes in muscle mass and bodyfat percentage have absolutely nothing to do with how long you've been training. Yes you can gain a lot of muscle when you first begin training and these are known as "noob gains", but you won't magically put on muscle and lose fat at the same time for a few months, then completely change gears.
3) "Women prefer definition to being bulky". This is a loaded statement. That's like comparing a 5'10" 150lb kid with a 6 pack to a 5'10" 200lb bodybuilder pre-cut cycle. Which do you think she'll prefer, the scrawny lad or the muscle man? Besides, women have much more prerequisites than men in the first place (our only real prerequisite is physical attraction).
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
I took you seriously up until this line. Why do you think medditaranean people live longer and are healthier on average than Americans or Brits?Espi said:Misconception...
It's called evolution, and there's nothing you can do to change it. Plastic surgery and responsible steroid use are the keys to a longer and healthier life.
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