"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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testing the waters? friend or lover?

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I'm in college and friends with a girl...not super close nor just acquaintances. We have eaten a few times and hung out at each others' places. I have flaked on her (not call back or follow up on details for an outing) and vice versa.

We were introduced to each other and now have mutual friends..I have hung out with these mutual friends and the girl as a group for a few times. They would probably approve if we started dating.

We joke around a lot (usually verbal, sometimes physical touching/punching) and sometimes call each other for no reason...lighthearted stuff.

I have started to think about possibly pursuing her--maybe get into a relationship.

How do I test out if she would be respond favorably to the idea of dating?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Thatfeel21

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bring her back to ya place, pop in a movie, and get the touching
 
Bible_Belt

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How do I test out if she would be respond favorably to the idea of dating?

get her alone, stroke her hair, gaze into her eyes, and kiss her. You can search for 'kiss test.' If she will be alone with you and let you touch her hair, then she wants to kiss you. And if she will kiss you, then she wants to have sex with you. "Dating" should be best thought of as what you do while resting between sex.
 
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