"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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testing the waters? friend or lover?

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I'm in college and friends with a girl...not super close nor just acquaintances. We have eaten a few times and hung out at each others' places. I have flaked on her (not call back or follow up on details for an outing) and vice versa.

We were introduced to each other and now have mutual friends..I have hung out with these mutual friends and the girl as a group for a few times. They would probably approve if we started dating.

We joke around a lot (usually verbal, sometimes physical touching/punching) and sometimes call each other for no reason...lighthearted stuff.

I have started to think about possibly pursuing her--maybe get into a relationship.

How do I test out if she would be respond favorably to the idea of dating?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Thatfeel21

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bring her back to ya place, pop in a movie, and get the touching
 
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How do I test out if she would be respond favorably to the idea of dating?

get her alone, stroke her hair, gaze into her eyes, and kiss her. You can search for 'kiss test.' If she will be alone with you and let you touch her hair, then she wants to kiss you. And if she will kiss you, then she wants to have sex with you. "Dating" should be best thought of as what you do while resting between sex.
 
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