Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Testerone
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
You know how when you know somebody going to punch you in the stomach, you subconciously squeeze to protect yourself?
When somebody's going to kick you in the nuts your body squeezes your gonads and testosterone pops out.
You can find the studies that were done on the pub MD site. Look for Roshambo and tesosterone... they had test groups, they had a group of people who actually got hit, a group that wore a cup, and a group that was only teased...
Only the group who actually got hit had their free testosterone levels raised.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
WORKEROUTER
Master Don Juan
Never stop jerking off!MrS said:And stop jerking off.
Shiftkey
Master Don Juan
Testosterone won't give you a new face. Get plastic surgery or learn to accept what you have.Kas said:For more masculine facial features
brucevangeorge
Banned
Weight training. WITH ACTUAL WEIGHTS!Kas said:Is there any ways to boost your testerone with out popping pills or jabs ?
Tribulus.
Various supplements containing tribulus stacks.
Zinc supplements (zinc found in meats. Thats why real men eat meat)
Having enough healthy fats in your diet to allow the production of testosterone.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
Proper diet to maintain/get high metabolism
Sleep. Try to get at least 8 hours per night. At least. Not only. At LEAST.
Then after you get all that in gear, supplement.
Egoist
Master Don Juan
Skilla_Staz said:Weight Training. No p*ssy stuff. Intense, hardcore weight training
Proper diet to maintain/get high metabolism
Sleep. Try to get at least 8 hours per night. At least. Not only. At LEAST.
Then after you get all that in gear, supplement.
and after you get supplements... steroids! :yes:
mmmm... steroids.... :rockon:
j/k
seriously, more working out, more protein, less jerking off. Its EAAAASY
Doggystyle
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This is what i would of said, but just want to add,brucevangeorge said:Weight training. WITH ACTUAL WEIGHTS!
Tribulus.
Various supplements containing tribulus stacks.
Zinc supplements (zinc found in meats. Thats why real men eat meat)
Having enough healthy fats in your diet to allow the production of testosterone.
Eat plently of protien
Never go hungry i.e. plenty of little meals instead of brecky....starve....lunch....starve....dinner....starve. replace the starve with a high protien based food, or if not at least something(no not crisps and chocolate!!!). eating regular with give you more muscle and lower body fat. Which in essence will give you a manly face.
Oh and dont over masturbate, masturbation is ok (when your horny as ****), but masturbating too much (just because your bored and got nothing better to do) will **** up your hormones.
Could do with a pic really of yourself to evaluate you properly.
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.