"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Have question about comment from chicks I date, chat with that comes out of the blue that confuses me. I'm a RAFC and NOT married but still learning. The chick
will say " Are you married?" or " Your married with kids right?" I'm 28 and wondering WTF am I giving off AFC stench?? Or is this normal part of the game?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I wouldn't take it the wrong way. She is probably wondering if you're available or not. Look at it this way, she wouldn't ask if she didn't care...
 
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Those are just standard questions. No biggie - just answer them if they come up.
 
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Catnip,
That seems a little too short of a description to give a more complete answer but I would think at 28, there are probably a fair amount of married guys they are exposed to and if they are still single, they might be getting "tricked" a lot in likeing guys and finding them married.
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You are such a fantastic "catch" thay they are just assuming you would have already been "caught"!
More info might chnage my answer, but I would think it is just a screening question in general. The older you get, the smaller the pool becomes to swim in! Until your 30's when all the divorcee's start to show up with kids in tow.
 
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Sounds like you did well on your date...you're 'marrying material' in her opinion so play it cool, and let her down gently if you just want to play :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Thanks for insight

Thanks guys for your insight. Since I'm still learning just don't want to be put on the '' make him wait for sex section'' too
long.
 
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