"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Have question about comment from chicks I date, chat with that comes out of the blue that confuses me. I'm a RAFC and NOT married but still learning. The chick
will say " Are you married?" or " Your married with kids right?" I'm 28 and wondering WTF am I giving off AFC stench?? Or is this normal part of the game?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I wouldn't take it the wrong way. She is probably wondering if you're available or not. Look at it this way, she wouldn't ask if she didn't care...
 
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Those are just standard questions. No biggie - just answer them if they come up.
 
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Catnip,
That seems a little too short of a description to give a more complete answer but I would think at 28, there are probably a fair amount of married guys they are exposed to and if they are still single, they might be getting "tricked" a lot in likeing guys and finding them married.
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You are such a fantastic "catch" thay they are just assuming you would have already been "caught"!
More info might chnage my answer, but I would think it is just a screening question in general. The older you get, the smaller the pool becomes to swim in! Until your 30's when all the divorcee's start to show up with kids in tow.
 
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Sounds like you did well on your date...you're 'marrying material' in her opinion so play it cool, and let her down gently if you just want to play :)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Thanks for insight

Thanks guys for your insight. Since I'm still learning just don't want to be put on the '' make him wait for sex section'' too
long.
 
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