"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Tempting..but would you?

seanmichaels

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We all know that if we don't really notice a girl and we find out that she likes you, we notice her and start to like her back. It's all happened before.

So like I noticed this girl but didn't really think much of it but I find out that she kinda has a thing for me. I'm not sure if she wants to be with me because I am a seemingly sucessful man who has money and drives a nice sports car but that's beyond the point.

Would you be with a girl whos ex-boyfriend is in jail and she has two kids with.

I overheard her saying "If I find a boyfriend, he has to have MONEY. Money to take care of me and my kids" She's hot but damn, I kinda get the feeling she's a erm..Gold digger. It's tempting, but I think I have to find it in me to just say NeXt!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ridingthelightning

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Trouble abounds this situation Tonto...Lets not step into a big pile of po'dunk.
:) Seriously don't do anything with this girl. 2 kids, and the father is in jail... Sounds like she's next in line for COPS and Jerry Springer.
 

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That's what I was thinking. At first I didn't have a problem that she has two kids I mean what's done is done. But the fact that the father of those kids is in jail......yikes.
 

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I would have thought that the money part would be the killer. Once you realize that this girl wants a bf that has money, you know that you're always gonna be second best to the green.

Add an ex-bf in jail and 2 kids and you've got one heck of a story for the grandkids.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Are you ****ing nuts? A wh0re with two kids and a deadbeat of a dad in jail.

Can you say emotional baggage?
Can you say gold digger?
Can you say nutcase?

You said you are a successful man. You can do better than this wh0re. Don't try to settle for her just because she likes you. You will regret this. Find some better catches.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Qmanchoo

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You wont find one person on this board who thinks it's a good idea man.

It's tempting, but I think I have to find it in me to just say NeXt!
:up:

What happens when the guy gets out and goes crazy over his EX being with another guy and goes into a jealous rage? Probability? Who knows, but why even make it a factor.
 

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first of the girl is a hor nothing more, she has to kids to a guy who is only a bf not a husband, you should not even be concidering this girl.

if her ex bf is in jail then one can assume he did something bad, when he gets out he may want to see his kids, what do you think he will do when he find out your raising them?

dont be a fool.
 

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Dudes, if your gut says "She's trouble" - she'll most likely be trouble. If you want drama and trauma in your life, then go for it.

I don't go for that **** anymore.
 

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Oh yeah, the Heartbreak kid is gonna get shanked!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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