"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tempting..but would you?

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We all know that if we don't really notice a girl and we find out that she likes you, we notice her and start to like her back. It's all happened before.

So like I noticed this girl but didn't really think much of it but I find out that she kinda has a thing for me. I'm not sure if she wants to be with me because I am a seemingly sucessful man who has money and drives a nice sports car but that's beyond the point.

Would you be with a girl whos ex-boyfriend is in jail and she has two kids with.

I overheard her saying "If I find a boyfriend, he has to have MONEY. Money to take care of me and my kids" She's hot but damn, I kinda get the feeling she's a erm..Gold digger. It's tempting, but I think I have to find it in me to just say NeXt!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Ridingthelightning

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Trouble abounds this situation Tonto...Lets not step into a big pile of po'dunk.
:) Seriously don't do anything with this girl. 2 kids, and the father is in jail... Sounds like she's next in line for COPS and Jerry Springer.
 

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That's what I was thinking. At first I didn't have a problem that she has two kids I mean what's done is done. But the fact that the father of those kids is in jail......yikes.
 

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I would have thought that the money part would be the killer. Once you realize that this girl wants a bf that has money, you know that you're always gonna be second best to the green.

Add an ex-bf in jail and 2 kids and you've got one heck of a story for the grandkids.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Are you ****ing nuts? A wh0re with two kids and a deadbeat of a dad in jail.

Can you say emotional baggage?
Can you say gold digger?
Can you say nutcase?

You said you are a successful man. You can do better than this wh0re. Don't try to settle for her just because she likes you. You will regret this. Find some better catches.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Qmanchoo

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You wont find one person on this board who thinks it's a good idea man.

It's tempting, but I think I have to find it in me to just say NeXt!
:up:

What happens when the guy gets out and goes crazy over his EX being with another guy and goes into a jealous rage? Probability? Who knows, but why even make it a factor.
 

duttylove

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first of the girl is a hor nothing more, she has to kids to a guy who is only a bf not a husband, you should not even be concidering this girl.

if her ex bf is in jail then one can assume he did something bad, when he gets out he may want to see his kids, what do you think he will do when he find out your raising them?

dont be a fool.
 

Skullcrusher

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Dudes, if your gut says "She's trouble" - she'll most likely be trouble. If you want drama and trauma in your life, then go for it.

I don't go for that **** anymore.
 

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Oh yeah, the Heartbreak kid is gonna get shanked!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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