"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Tempting..but would you?

seanmichaels

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We all know that if we don't really notice a girl and we find out that she likes you, we notice her and start to like her back. It's all happened before.

So like I noticed this girl but didn't really think much of it but I find out that she kinda has a thing for me. I'm not sure if she wants to be with me because I am a seemingly sucessful man who has money and drives a nice sports car but that's beyond the point.

Would you be with a girl whos ex-boyfriend is in jail and she has two kids with.

I overheard her saying "If I find a boyfriend, he has to have MONEY. Money to take care of me and my kids" She's hot but damn, I kinda get the feeling she's a erm..Gold digger. It's tempting, but I think I have to find it in me to just say NeXt!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Ridingthelightning

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Trouble abounds this situation Tonto...Lets not step into a big pile of po'dunk.
:) Seriously don't do anything with this girl. 2 kids, and the father is in jail... Sounds like she's next in line for COPS and Jerry Springer.
 

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That's what I was thinking. At first I didn't have a problem that she has two kids I mean what's done is done. But the fact that the father of those kids is in jail......yikes.
 

JonJack

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I would have thought that the money part would be the killer. Once you realize that this girl wants a bf that has money, you know that you're always gonna be second best to the green.

Add an ex-bf in jail and 2 kids and you've got one heck of a story for the grandkids.
 

TillTheEndOfTime

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Are you ****ing nuts? A wh0re with two kids and a deadbeat of a dad in jail.

Can you say emotional baggage?
Can you say gold digger?
Can you say nutcase?

You said you are a successful man. You can do better than this wh0re. Don't try to settle for her just because she likes you. You will regret this. Find some better catches.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Qmanchoo

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You wont find one person on this board who thinks it's a good idea man.

It's tempting, but I think I have to find it in me to just say NeXt!
:up:

What happens when the guy gets out and goes crazy over his EX being with another guy and goes into a jealous rage? Probability? Who knows, but why even make it a factor.
 

duttylove

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first of the girl is a hor nothing more, she has to kids to a guy who is only a bf not a husband, you should not even be concidering this girl.

if her ex bf is in jail then one can assume he did something bad, when he gets out he may want to see his kids, what do you think he will do when he find out your raising them?

dont be a fool.
 

Skullcrusher

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Dudes, if your gut says "She's trouble" - she'll most likely be trouble. If you want drama and trauma in your life, then go for it.

I don't go for that **** anymore.
 

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Oh yeah, the Heartbreak kid is gonna get shanked!!!
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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