"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Temple chicks ?

Iceberg_Itsover

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Ok, now i am a Buddhist and i go to the temple every now and then.
There is this chick at the temple that i go to that i talk to as friends. She was playing with my mobile phone games and stuff and called herself using my number so she got my number.
Several days later she txt's me and and stuff, we meet up a few times outside the temple, so basically i got the ball game rolling.
Problem is being a temple chick, her family is very strict. Last night i asked her out to see a movie at like say 8-9pm. she had to ask her mum, she said she couldnt go. During the night she txt's me and tells me that i have to ask her before hand so she can ask for permission from her mum to go... blah blah blah

Long story short... should i continue with this girl ? or move on to a more openly available chick?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Wodan

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Iceberg_Itsover said:
Ok, now i am a Buddhist and i go to the temple every now and then.
There is this chick at the temple that i go to that i talk to as friends. She was playing with my mobile phone games and stuff and called herself using my number so she got my number.
Several days later she txt's me and and stuff, we meet up a few times outside the temple, so basically i got the ball game rolling.
Problem is being a temple chick, her family is very strict. Last night i asked her out to see a movie at like say 8-9pm. she had to ask her mum, she said she couldnt go. During the night she txt's me and tells me that i have to ask her before hand so she can ask for permission from her mum to go... blah blah blah

Long story short... should i continue with this girl ? or move on to a more openly available chick?

If you want a GF id guess she would be well suited and have high morals, if you wantn to mess around with girls leave her alone.
 

KontrollerX

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No more temple chicks or religious chicks of any stripe.

Their moral bullsh!t or their families moral bullsh!t keeps you from getting anything productive going with them and wastes valueable years of your time as you jump through various hoops just to get an opportunity to fvck her.

If I were you I'd drop the religion bullsh!t altogether and go for an atheist chick.

No moral hangups, guilt or fear about sex.

Whether you get in an atheist chicks pants or not is all about level of attraction and how much game you have.

Stop setting yourself up for failure guys.

Go for chicks who view the world in a way that best allows you to fvck her ASAP.
 
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I wouldn't bother. In the end, their standards are impossibly or stupidly high, and they're going to try and convert you. you'll only end up falling out. just my take on things.
 

amoka

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Like others have indicated, it is not worth a while pursuing any temple chicks; particularly when they are dependent on their parents. Why did you asked to go to a movie together on the same day anyway. Would you jump to such a request from a woman? I hope not. Keep up the game.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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