"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Temple chicks ?

Iceberg_Itsover

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Ok, now i am a Buddhist and i go to the temple every now and then.
There is this chick at the temple that i go to that i talk to as friends. She was playing with my mobile phone games and stuff and called herself using my number so she got my number.
Several days later she txt's me and and stuff, we meet up a few times outside the temple, so basically i got the ball game rolling.
Problem is being a temple chick, her family is very strict. Last night i asked her out to see a movie at like say 8-9pm. she had to ask her mum, she said she couldnt go. During the night she txt's me and tells me that i have to ask her before hand so she can ask for permission from her mum to go... blah blah blah

Long story short... should i continue with this girl ? or move on to a more openly available chick?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Wodan

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Iceberg_Itsover said:
Ok, now i am a Buddhist and i go to the temple every now and then.
There is this chick at the temple that i go to that i talk to as friends. She was playing with my mobile phone games and stuff and called herself using my number so she got my number.
Several days later she txt's me and and stuff, we meet up a few times outside the temple, so basically i got the ball game rolling.
Problem is being a temple chick, her family is very strict. Last night i asked her out to see a movie at like say 8-9pm. she had to ask her mum, she said she couldnt go. During the night she txt's me and tells me that i have to ask her before hand so she can ask for permission from her mum to go... blah blah blah

Long story short... should i continue with this girl ? or move on to a more openly available chick?

If you want a GF id guess she would be well suited and have high morals, if you wantn to mess around with girls leave her alone.
 

KontrollerX

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No more temple chicks or religious chicks of any stripe.

Their moral bullsh!t or their families moral bullsh!t keeps you from getting anything productive going with them and wastes valueable years of your time as you jump through various hoops just to get an opportunity to fvck her.

If I were you I'd drop the religion bullsh!t altogether and go for an atheist chick.

No moral hangups, guilt or fear about sex.

Whether you get in an atheist chicks pants or not is all about level of attraction and how much game you have.

Stop setting yourself up for failure guys.

Go for chicks who view the world in a way that best allows you to fvck her ASAP.
 
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I wouldn't bother. In the end, their standards are impossibly or stupidly high, and they're going to try and convert you. you'll only end up falling out. just my take on things.
 

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Like others have indicated, it is not worth a while pursuing any temple chicks; particularly when they are dependent on their parents. Why did you asked to go to a movie together on the same day anyway. Would you jump to such a request from a woman? I hope not. Keep up the game.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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