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Temple chicks ?

Iceberg_Itsover

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Ok, now i am a Buddhist and i go to the temple every now and then.
There is this chick at the temple that i go to that i talk to as friends. She was playing with my mobile phone games and stuff and called herself using my number so she got my number.
Several days later she txt's me and and stuff, we meet up a few times outside the temple, so basically i got the ball game rolling.
Problem is being a temple chick, her family is very strict. Last night i asked her out to see a movie at like say 8-9pm. she had to ask her mum, she said she couldnt go. During the night she txt's me and tells me that i have to ask her before hand so she can ask for permission from her mum to go... blah blah blah

Long story short... should i continue with this girl ? or move on to a more openly available chick?
 

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Iceberg_Itsover said:
Ok, now i am a Buddhist and i go to the temple every now and then.
There is this chick at the temple that i go to that i talk to as friends. She was playing with my mobile phone games and stuff and called herself using my number so she got my number.
Several days later she txt's me and and stuff, we meet up a few times outside the temple, so basically i got the ball game rolling.
Problem is being a temple chick, her family is very strict. Last night i asked her out to see a movie at like say 8-9pm. she had to ask her mum, she said she couldnt go. During the night she txt's me and tells me that i have to ask her before hand so she can ask for permission from her mum to go... blah blah blah

Long story short... should i continue with this girl ? or move on to a more openly available chick?

If you want a GF id guess she would be well suited and have high morals, if you wantn to mess around with girls leave her alone.
 

KontrollerX

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No more temple chicks or religious chicks of any stripe.

Their moral bullsh!t or their families moral bullsh!t keeps you from getting anything productive going with them and wastes valueable years of your time as you jump through various hoops just to get an opportunity to fvck her.

If I were you I'd drop the religion bullsh!t altogether and go for an atheist chick.

No moral hangups, guilt or fear about sex.

Whether you get in an atheist chicks pants or not is all about level of attraction and how much game you have.

Stop setting yourself up for failure guys.

Go for chicks who view the world in a way that best allows you to fvck her ASAP.
 
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I wouldn't bother. In the end, their standards are impossibly or stupidly high, and they're going to try and convert you. you'll only end up falling out. just my take on things.
 

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Like others have indicated, it is not worth a while pursuing any temple chicks; particularly when they are dependent on their parents. Why did you asked to go to a movie together on the same day anyway. Would you jump to such a request from a woman? I hope not. Keep up the game.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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