"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Telling Intresting Stories to Entertain?

CobaltBlue

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Hey all,

I am working hard on my conversational skills, as part of becoming a dj. I have read various posts saying that you should try to include funny/intresting stories when talking to women.

I realise its not so much what you say, but how you say it (delivery). But I can't think of any intresting stories to tell cause i was a boring person, they say you should make em' up. Again, I was crap at english!

I would like to be able to form them into patterns, and possibly relate them to her in someways.

Any ideas?

Cheers :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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flying10

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You're in high school right? Tell her about a time when you bombed a test or when you got a detention for doing something stupid. She'll probably laugh and be able to relate and tell her own story.

Do you like music? Tell her about your favorite band and a funny story about them. Also, I've had sucess with telling girls sports stories and party stories.

Good Luck
 

The Monkey

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Always have HOBBIES. The more hobbies you have, the more interesting stories you will have to tell. I can always talk about tons of stuff, because I'm always doing tons of stuff besides vegging out in front of the TV.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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stay up to date on things that are happening in the world around you.

by this i don't mean excessively watching tv, but things that (she may) be interested in.

for example, at my school we often have spirit days, such as crazy hat day. this is the perfect opportunity to tell her about the time you wore a fuzzy green pimp hat on a date with a girl at an expensive restaurant. (I actually did this one :D)

maybe not an everyday example there, but just be aware of whats going on and try to think of a funny thing you could say about it. try to imagine that you have THE MOST amazing life ever, and have a million stories to tell. they will come more naturally.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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