"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Telling Intresting Stories to Entertain?

CobaltBlue

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Hey all,

I am working hard on my conversational skills, as part of becoming a dj. I have read various posts saying that you should try to include funny/intresting stories when talking to women.

I realise its not so much what you say, but how you say it (delivery). But I can't think of any intresting stories to tell cause i was a boring person, they say you should make em' up. Again, I was crap at english!

I would like to be able to form them into patterns, and possibly relate them to her in someways.

Any ideas?

Cheers :D
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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flying10

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You're in high school right? Tell her about a time when you bombed a test or when you got a detention for doing something stupid. She'll probably laugh and be able to relate and tell her own story.

Do you like music? Tell her about your favorite band and a funny story about them. Also, I've had sucess with telling girls sports stories and party stories.

Good Luck
 

The Monkey

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Always have HOBBIES. The more hobbies you have, the more interesting stories you will have to tell. I can always talk about tons of stuff, because I'm always doing tons of stuff besides vegging out in front of the TV.
 

Mr. Debonaire

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stay up to date on things that are happening in the world around you.

by this i don't mean excessively watching tv, but things that (she may) be interested in.

for example, at my school we often have spirit days, such as crazy hat day. this is the perfect opportunity to tell her about the time you wore a fuzzy green pimp hat on a date with a girl at an expensive restaurant. (I actually did this one :D)

maybe not an everyday example there, but just be aware of whats going on and try to think of a funny thing you could say about it. try to imagine that you have THE MOST amazing life ever, and have a million stories to tell. they will come more naturally.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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