navyseal2101
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Ok, so keeping her interested isn't that hard yet. Now that I have her am I ever supposed to tell her I love her or things like that or should I always be a "jerk"?
Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Telling her
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
haha... you don't tell her. That's pretty much a golden rule. But do indeed make her feel special... but believe me, telling her that u love her is a turnoff. I guess it's alright once you're in a good LTR
and don't feel like you always have to be a jerk or ****y and funny either
and don't feel like you always have to be a jerk or ****y and funny either
navyseal2101
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Alright, thanks alot, new to the whole thing.
A lot of the stuff on this site is how to get the girl interested in YOU... because it should be you that she's after. It's all about the mindset 
But I'm still working on getting there. I was there for a while but then it seems it comes and goes in waves or something I dunno. So basically telling her or her friends that you like her makes you look a bit needy. Your interest should be conveyed in your actions and personality and stuff.
But honestly, telling a girl you like her depends on the situation. There was an article on here a while back of how expressing interest in a girl can get her thinking about you. But the girl has to be 'equal' to you or whatever. For others, it's a complete turnoff.
But I'm still working on getting there. I was there for a while but then it seems it comes and goes in waves or something I dunno. So basically telling her or her friends that you like her makes you look a bit needy. Your interest should be conveyed in your actions and personality and stuff. But honestly, telling a girl you like her depends on the situation. There was an article on here a while back of how expressing interest in a girl can get her thinking about you. But the girl has to be 'equal' to you or whatever. For others, it's a complete turnoff.