navyseal2101
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Ok, so keeping her interested isn't that hard yet. Now that I have her am I ever supposed to tell her I love her or things like that or should I always be a "jerk"?
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Telling her
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
haha... you don't tell her. That's pretty much a golden rule. But do indeed make her feel special... but believe me, telling her that u love her is a turnoff. I guess it's alright once you're in a good LTR
and don't feel like you always have to be a jerk or ****y and funny either
and don't feel like you always have to be a jerk or ****y and funny either
navyseal2101
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Alright, thanks alot, new to the whole thing.
A lot of the stuff on this site is how to get the girl interested in YOU... because it should be you that she's after. It's all about the mindset 
But I'm still working on getting there. I was there for a while but then it seems it comes and goes in waves or something I dunno. So basically telling her or her friends that you like her makes you look a bit needy. Your interest should be conveyed in your actions and personality and stuff.
But honestly, telling a girl you like her depends on the situation. There was an article on here a while back of how expressing interest in a girl can get her thinking about you. But the girl has to be 'equal' to you or whatever. For others, it's a complete turnoff.
But I'm still working on getting there. I was there for a while but then it seems it comes and goes in waves or something I dunno. So basically telling her or her friends that you like her makes you look a bit needy. Your interest should be conveyed in your actions and personality and stuff. But honestly, telling a girl you like her depends on the situation. There was an article on here a while back of how expressing interest in a girl can get her thinking about you. But the girl has to be 'equal' to you or whatever. For others, it's a complete turnoff.