navyseal2101
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Ok, so keeping her interested isn't that hard yet. Now that I have her am I ever supposed to tell her I love her or things like that or should I always be a "jerk"?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Telling her
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
haha... you don't tell her. That's pretty much a golden rule. But do indeed make her feel special... but believe me, telling her that u love her is a turnoff. I guess it's alright once you're in a good LTR
and don't feel like you always have to be a jerk or ****y and funny either
and don't feel like you always have to be a jerk or ****y and funny either
navyseal2101
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Alright, thanks alot, new to the whole thing.
A lot of the stuff on this site is how to get the girl interested in YOU... because it should be you that she's after. It's all about the mindset 
But I'm still working on getting there. I was there for a while but then it seems it comes and goes in waves or something I dunno. So basically telling her or her friends that you like her makes you look a bit needy. Your interest should be conveyed in your actions and personality and stuff.
But honestly, telling a girl you like her depends on the situation. There was an article on here a while back of how expressing interest in a girl can get her thinking about you. But the girl has to be 'equal' to you or whatever. For others, it's a complete turnoff.
But I'm still working on getting there. I was there for a while but then it seems it comes and goes in waves or something I dunno. So basically telling her or her friends that you like her makes you look a bit needy. Your interest should be conveyed in your actions and personality and stuff. But honestly, telling a girl you like her depends on the situation. There was an article on here a while back of how expressing interest in a girl can get her thinking about you. But the girl has to be 'equal' to you or whatever. For others, it's a complete turnoff.