navyseal2101
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Ok, so keeping her interested isn't that hard yet. Now that I have her am I ever supposed to tell her I love her or things like that or should I always be a "jerk"?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Telling her
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
haha... you don't tell her. That's pretty much a golden rule. But do indeed make her feel special... but believe me, telling her that u love her is a turnoff. I guess it's alright once you're in a good LTR
and don't feel like you always have to be a jerk or ****y and funny either
and don't feel like you always have to be a jerk or ****y and funny either
navyseal2101
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Alright, thanks alot, new to the whole thing.
A lot of the stuff on this site is how to get the girl interested in YOU... because it should be you that she's after. It's all about the mindset 
But I'm still working on getting there. I was there for a while but then it seems it comes and goes in waves or something I dunno. So basically telling her or her friends that you like her makes you look a bit needy. Your interest should be conveyed in your actions and personality and stuff.
But honestly, telling a girl you like her depends on the situation. There was an article on here a while back of how expressing interest in a girl can get her thinking about you. But the girl has to be 'equal' to you or whatever. For others, it's a complete turnoff.
But I'm still working on getting there. I was there for a while but then it seems it comes and goes in waves or something I dunno. So basically telling her or her friends that you like her makes you look a bit needy. Your interest should be conveyed in your actions and personality and stuff. But honestly, telling a girl you like her depends on the situation. There was an article on here a while back of how expressing interest in a girl can get her thinking about you. But the girl has to be 'equal' to you or whatever. For others, it's a complete turnoff.