Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Fenderules

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yeah so my buddies cousin wont leave me alone at all. Shes a 23 year old mom who is on large side. I am not intersted. I have not done anything to provoke her. The other nice i possed out on the couch and she kept trying to put her hands on me............... yuck.

whats the best way to let her off. Its getting real annoying. She keeps calling and posting stupid comments on my myspace. She calls my buddies houw (her cousin), his myspace and my phone.

its driving me freaking nuts and i'v only known her for a week!!!!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Fenderules

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I dont wanna be mean or anything cause she's my buddies cousin. But i guess she cant take a hint when i push her away. yesterday she showed up so i left right away.

any tips are good. I just wanna get her to stop bothering me but in a nice way.
 

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Tell her that you enjoy her friendship, however her posts on your page and constant calls are making you feel uncomfortable and you would like for her to stop.
 
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Say "No" to fat hos!!!
 

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She's obviously not taking the hints. I would just tell her nicely. But at the same time be straightforward.

Francis probably gave the best advice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Ahh, I hate fat chicks. The other day I was horny and so I look at this fat chick for a moment, and I dont know how but she was able to see me from the 3rd floor and I was inside my stang.

She walks by and like HIIIIIII. And I have my MP3 player on and dont really give a fvck.


Fat chicks are stalkers. I think they get fat so that they dont get raped, its a defence mechanism, whos gonna rape a fat chick????
 

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Reminds me of a situation I was in a while back. This horrid fugly chick had the hots for me. Problem was that she was my friends wife best friend. Sometimes you can't win no matter what you do, and there was no way in hell that I was going to get within arms length of this thing. My tack was to just tell her directly and in no uncertian terms that she didn't do it for me at all. Sure she was disappointed or something when told, and of course got mad and told my buddies wife how much of a b@stard I was ect, ect....but better to squelch her emotions quick than to keep silent and hope it will go away......
 

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sigh I have the same problem all the time, not so much with fat or ugly girls just cookie cutter dumb boring ones. I tell them I just want to be plutonic friends and I'm interested in only that.
 

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yeah i pretty much new what you were all gonna say. I just dont wanna deal with it hahaha. I'v only known her for a week and she's like stalking me. phoned me twice today. put all this garbage on my myspace, called my bands house twice. im like holy crap.....................

does not help that my buddy told her i wanted to nail her....... ARRRRRRRG
 

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I have two women I don't want anything to do with romantically. The first girl I was into but then my interest fell off (she got annoying). The other girl I was never interested in. She looks good (nice face, big booty) but something about her personality gives off that desperate vibe to the point where I don't even want to hookup for fear of the consequences. Plus, she talks a little too much (I prefer quieter girls). I thought about throwing other guys into the picture who might be interested in these women but I don't want to do it in a way that will make it appear as though I'm trying to get rid of them. Any ideas? Funny, in college, I was dying for this type of attention. Go figure!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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DjDoomage, fat chicks even get raped. It doesn't matter how they look. There was a rape around here a few months ago where a man in his late 30's-early 40's raped a 62 year old woman at 3 AM in the morning in her bed.
 

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JLW said:
She's obviously not taking the hints. I would just tell her nicely. But at the same time be straightforward.

Francis probably gave the best advice.
"FRANCIS????"

Is it too much to ask for two more key clicks for a C and an O??!! :woo:
 

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yeah next time i run into her im gonna tell her.

the past 2 days she put like 20 posts on my myspace. People are even messaging me saying "is that your new GF"

im like F*************CK lol. its annoying as hell. ntm she is a 23 year old mother.

im 20 and just got out of childhood. why the hell would i want to deal with a kid???? lol

i'v never met her kids and she sent a message being like "the kids wanna meet you so they can call you daddy"
lol if she didnt make a guy run before, hes running now
 

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tomorrow im going to go see Heaven and Hell (black sabbath with dio) and after words i wanna bang this other slut that wants my ****. So hopefully that fat chick will get the idea tomorrow. Either way im not letting go past tomorrow without telling her
 

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i just checked my myspace again on on her myspace she saying im dating her




ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

yeah this has to end
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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i just checked my myspace again on on her myspace she saying im dating her




ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh!

yeah this has to end
 

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the only time we got touchy feelly was when i was passed out drunk and she was touching me. im really getting creeped out now
 

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so i talked to her and told her i am seeing someone right now and we are gonna go serious. (this is bs, im just saying that to be nice cause her cousin told me to let her of easy) but yeah she still did not get the point.

she is like "does not matter to me, im cool with that. i'l give you a shout and we will hook up some time"

goddddddddddd
 

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Fender,

I had the same situation as you once.....I told her that I didn't want to affect my friendship with my buddy and that it just couldn't work.

Even now, a decade later, she says it's all my buddies fault that she and I didn't hook up, because he's her cousin, lol.

Fed
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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