"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Telling a white lie

sambwoy

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I have sunken chest (pectus excavatum) and have been working on my wardrobe, but I have been really insecure at times about my chest.

Is it okay to make something up to a girl about my chest got this way?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Stort_Brød

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I can fully understand your insecurity about such a thing bro I have gynecomastia so pretty much the opposite lol. not a nice feeling either way but I don't see the point of lying about it. If you are just looking for a one night quickie then by all means do and say what you need to in order to get your end wet, you could even tailor a cool story how you were doing a double backflip on your dirtbike and got impaled on the handlebars or some other manly man stuff like that. but if you are looking for a LTR then don't tell a lie about something like that.

Pretty much all in all do what ever makes you happy. but it is something that is part of you and I don't see why you should lie about something you can't help. and if the chick can't get over it then NEXT that B!TCH into oblivion
 

sambwoy

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Stort_Brød said:
but if you are looking for a LTR then don't tell a lie about something like that.
i dunno, these days even in an LTR could it be that looks still matter first, depending how entitled she feels? having been on other forums for a while, many people talk about looks like they will last.
 
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