"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Telling a white lie

sambwoy

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I have sunken chest (pectus excavatum) and have been working on my wardrobe, but I have been really insecure at times about my chest.

Is it okay to make something up to a girl about my chest got this way?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Stort_Brød

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I can fully understand your insecurity about such a thing bro I have gynecomastia so pretty much the opposite lol. not a nice feeling either way but I don't see the point of lying about it. If you are just looking for a one night quickie then by all means do and say what you need to in order to get your end wet, you could even tailor a cool story how you were doing a double backflip on your dirtbike and got impaled on the handlebars or some other manly man stuff like that. but if you are looking for a LTR then don't tell a lie about something like that.

Pretty much all in all do what ever makes you happy. but it is something that is part of you and I don't see why you should lie about something you can't help. and if the chick can't get over it then NEXT that B!TCH into oblivion
 

sambwoy

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Stort_Brød said:
but if you are looking for a LTR then don't tell a lie about something like that.
i dunno, these days even in an LTR could it be that looks still matter first, depending how entitled she feels? having been on other forums for a while, many people talk about looks like they will last.
 
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