"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Telling a white lie

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sambwoy

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I have sunken chest (pectus excavatum) and have been working on my wardrobe, but I have been really insecure at times about my chest.

Is it okay to make something up to a girl about my chest got this way?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I can fully understand your insecurity about such a thing bro I have gynecomastia so pretty much the opposite lol. not a nice feeling either way but I don't see the point of lying about it. If you are just looking for a one night quickie then by all means do and say what you need to in order to get your end wet, you could even tailor a cool story how you were doing a double backflip on your dirtbike and got impaled on the handlebars or some other manly man stuff like that. but if you are looking for a LTR then don't tell a lie about something like that.

Pretty much all in all do what ever makes you happy. but it is something that is part of you and I don't see why you should lie about something you can't help. and if the chick can't get over it then NEXT that B!TCH into oblivion
 
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Stort_Brød said:
but if you are looking for a LTR then don't tell a lie about something like that.
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i dunno, these days even in an LTR could it be that looks still matter first, depending how entitled she feels? having been on other forums for a while, many people talk about looks like they will last.
 
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