"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Telling a lie about your past

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PooMan

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Theres this gal that ive basically lied to about me being a virgin which iam but she thinks im not and she thinks im quite expierenced! i havent denied this and stupidly ive made gals names up and expierences and told her about them!

thing is were really into each other and shes coming down in a couple of weeks and staying over for the weekend and shes expecting me to "take control"

if we get into a relationship, shes gonna have to know my lack of past and that i was lying!

i feel bad!

any advice?

cheers
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Mate in your circumstances, it's better to be a virgin and crap, than a stud and crap. The former will get another chance.

Be honest and tell her that you lied. You don't have much choice. She might take it well, or badly.

But in future, be honest! Although hopefully there won't BE a future!
 
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Originally posted by 007~JC
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Actually from now on you should be truthful about that. Many girls would love to fvck a virgin guy. It's a rarity.
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oh pleaze,

they wan't to be fvcked buy a stud, not some guy who doesn't know what hole to put it into.


If they ask you in the future, make a funny coment and change the subject or turn it on her.... as for now, i'd wing it. I'm sure you can find the hole
 
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To a certain degree only, Spider. A chick also loves claiming ownership over a guy - as in taking his virginity.

Heh, if you got any nympho friends, I'm sure you heard 'em brag about how many virgins they slept with. It's not something I understand, personally - I just know it happens.

*shrug*
 
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i call my girlfriend the virgin slayer, im the fourth shes slayed :crackup:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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