"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Telling a lie about your past

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PooMan

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Theres this gal that ive basically lied to about me being a virgin which iam but she thinks im not and she thinks im quite expierenced! i havent denied this and stupidly ive made gals names up and expierences and told her about them!

thing is were really into each other and shes coming down in a couple of weeks and staying over for the weekend and shes expecting me to "take control"

if we get into a relationship, shes gonna have to know my lack of past and that i was lying!

i feel bad!

any advice?

cheers
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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aftershock

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Mate in your circumstances, it's better to be a virgin and crap, than a stud and crap. The former will get another chance.

Be honest and tell her that you lied. You don't have much choice. She might take it well, or badly.

But in future, be honest! Although hopefully there won't BE a future!
 
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Originally posted by 007~JC
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Actually from now on you should be truthful about that. Many girls would love to fvck a virgin guy. It's a rarity.
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oh pleaze,

they wan't to be fvcked buy a stud, not some guy who doesn't know what hole to put it into.


If they ask you in the future, make a funny coment and change the subject or turn it on her.... as for now, i'd wing it. I'm sure you can find the hole
 
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To a certain degree only, Spider. A chick also loves claiming ownership over a guy - as in taking his virginity.

Heh, if you got any nympho friends, I'm sure you heard 'em brag about how many virgins they slept with. It's not something I understand, personally - I just know it happens.

*shrug*
 
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i call my girlfriend the virgin slayer, im the fourth shes slayed :crackup:
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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