“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Telling a lie about your past

PooMan

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Theres this gal that ive basically lied to about me being a virgin which iam but she thinks im not and she thinks im quite expierenced! i havent denied this and stupidly ive made gals names up and expierences and told her about them!

thing is were really into each other and shes coming down in a couple of weeks and staying over for the weekend and shes expecting me to "take control"

if we get into a relationship, shes gonna have to know my lack of past and that i was lying!

i feel bad!

any advice?

cheers
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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aftershock

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Mate in your circumstances, it's better to be a virgin and crap, than a stud and crap. The former will get another chance.

Be honest and tell her that you lied. You don't have much choice. She might take it well, or badly.

But in future, be honest! Although hopefully there won't BE a future!
 

spider_007

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Originally posted by 007~JC
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Actually from now on you should be truthful about that. Many girls would love to fvck a virgin guy. It's a rarity.
-007
oh pleaze,

they wan't to be fvcked buy a stud, not some guy who doesn't know what hole to put it into.


If they ask you in the future, make a funny coment and change the subject or turn it on her.... as for now, i'd wing it. I'm sure you can find the hole
 

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To a certain degree only, Spider. A chick also loves claiming ownership over a guy - as in taking his virginity.

Heh, if you got any nympho friends, I'm sure you heard 'em brag about how many virgins they slept with. It's not something I understand, personally - I just know it happens.

*shrug*
 

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i call my girlfriend the virgin slayer, im the fourth shes slayed :crackup:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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