"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Telling a girl you love her while having sex..

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MattR1984

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I KNOW I don't love this girl, she's a plate I see once every week or two for the past 3 months. I was drunk, on a Norco and the sex was feeling amazing and I told her that. She didn't say it back thankfully! She started kissing me very intimately afterwards.

I didn't bring it up after sex, hoping it would go away and she didn't bring it up thankfully! I know she will eventually regardless of her being drunk also. So my question is what kind of a mind f.ck is this to a girl when you tell them that while having sex. Hopefully she thinks I was just drunk etc and didn't mean it. Maybe saying it while sexing them makes it worse with the intimate connection happening in the moment. Guess I'll see.

Two drunk mistakes this week already. I need to lay off the booze! Oh well. Off to work!
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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It will only be as big as you make it, its not a big deal, you were both drunk and in heat of the moment, just relax and if she brings it up just react :

" Did I really ? Wow must have been one drink too much that night "
Or something along these lines.

Don't sweat it.
 
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If she didn't respond, or said that after, I don't think you should think about that. Maybe she didn't even realized what you said lol
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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