"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Telling a girl you love her while having sex..

MattR1984

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I KNOW I don't love this girl, she's a plate I see once every week or two for the past 3 months. I was drunk, on a Norco and the sex was feeling amazing and I told her that. She didn't say it back thankfully! She started kissing me very intimately afterwards.

I didn't bring it up after sex, hoping it would go away and she didn't bring it up thankfully! I know she will eventually regardless of her being drunk also. So my question is what kind of a mind f.ck is this to a girl when you tell them that while having sex. Hopefully she thinks I was just drunk etc and didn't mean it. Maybe saying it while sexing them makes it worse with the intimate connection happening in the moment. Guess I'll see.

Two drunk mistakes this week already. I need to lay off the booze! Oh well. Off to work!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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blind_one

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It will only be as big as you make it, its not a big deal, you were both drunk and in heat of the moment, just relax and if she brings it up just react :

" Did I really ? Wow must have been one drink too much that night "
Or something along these lines.

Don't sweat it.
 

miketan70

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If she didn't respond, or said that after, I don't think you should think about that. Maybe she didn't even realized what you said lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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